Most ladies, in general, prefer to be asked to go out. It is understood that men should do the asking. This is custom. This make a difference, like any other custom in romantic relationships, evolve and undergo change as years pass by, as inventions prosper, as ladies fight for equality. The victory of the “ladies’s proper to vote” triggered claims for other rights of ladies that should equal the suitables of men. The fight against discrimination of ladies from all endeavors spread throughout the earth, Asia included.
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Before the advent of telephone, mobile phones, television, radio and other gadgets that improved and facilitated conversation, a male has to approach the dad or the family of the female to ask permission to bring her to dinner outside of her home. He has to answer so many questions, particularly if the family members know nothing about him before the permission is reluctantly granted with the provision of a chaperon. The expected time to be home is even set.
So, gradually, this tradition changed. By small degrees, the freedom to go out to dinner or occasion widened to exclude a chaperon or the pair finds ways and means to be able to see each other outdoors each other’s properties. Teen-aged ladies became bolder, more aggressive.and more permissive. In this regard, Asian females are slower in adapting the change. fundamentally, they are more conservative than their counterparts in the developed nations.
However, perspectives of the current Asian woman adjusted as the years pass by. self confidence, perception on one’s self value and the desire to show and gain equal treatment with men also adjusted the persona and psyche of Asian women. The question “If you (a man) can do it, why can’t I?” props up from time to time. So now, we have girls occupying positions, taking up courses and doing jobs that traditionally are for men.
I am an Asian girl, governed by the teachings of my mother and father to be very mindful when having a partnership with a man. I am inherently conservative and reticent to do things that go against the teachings of my dad and mom. One of the rules, I remember is, it is safer to go in numbers and to really know who you are going with. yet another rule is, let your spouse and children know the place you are certain for and who you are with. Although I was growing-up, and that was so long ago, who ask whom to go out was not a concern.
“I am a lady! Why can I not ask you (a MAN) to go out? Is it due to the fact it is not proper for a lady to ask a man to go out? What if I have to wait forever for you to ask me to go out? Will I not ever have the chance to go out with you? Let us talk about being equal. Sometimes, you ask me, you pay. Sometimes, I ask you, I pay. But I will by no means open the door for you nor have you seated. Fair enough?”
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