Who would want to finish up broken, destroyed and hurt after working hard at a relationship? Of course, we all would want to have a sound relationship that can make it through good times and bad. Yet, when the tides are too engulfing, most would just allow themselves to be swept away by the tumultuous waves. Are you going to let your relationship just steal away when the situations are too overwhelming?
Of course, it is difficult to let go and the repeated cry of your heart after all you have been through is this: Is my relationship worth fixing? Is my relationship worth struggling and worth maintaining? If your answer is still YES, even amidst the pain and heart-brokenness, then you and your mate still deserve a second chance.
Relationships take a lot of work and sacrifice. Patience and understanding are needed too, along with almost all the familiar values and virtues that you can possibly think of. When you are in a relationship, you cannot act like a spoiled-brat always getting what you want. You have to do your share in making the relationship thrive.
It is Love that Makes the Relationship Worth -Fixing
A good relationship is worth repairing when there is still common love for each other. They say, “Love treats a multitude of sins”. Well, whether true or not, for as long as you love the individual and you still want to be with him/her, you can still patch things up and make it work. With love, there is acceptance and all other positive scenarios in a healthy relationship can at long last follow.
A Recovered Trust Is All You Need
When your partner cheats you, the trust instantly fades. When you can try to regain that trust, although not completely yet, you can work it out for the better. Trusting your loved one again despite the deception gives both of you the freedom to love each other once again without inhibitions.
Forgiveness is Key to a Productive Second Chance
You cannot fix a relationship when there is no forgiveness. Love may still be there but if the past continues to obsess and withdraw you with the person you love, better stand still, perhaps, hope and pray for a more forgiving heart.
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