Do you miss your boyfriend? Do You Want Him Back? Getting him back after a volatile break-up is not as hard as you may think. You just need the right set of guidelines.
In time he will want you back too. And when that day comes, you want to be ready. The time and effort that you put into winning him back should not go to waste.
If you want to win your ex back, here are 5 bullet points that you can use to swing the odds in your favor of repairing your relationship. You don’t necessarily have to use these in this order because each situation and couple is unique. So, while you are using these suggestions be creative and make them work for your situation.
I ask this question because if you have low self-confidence, how do you expect to get your ex back. When you are impressed by you and you love who you are, your ex boyfriend will be too.
Everyone should know you are worth having without you having to tell them. This should be evident in how you carry yourself. If you have the mentality that you have no self-worth, everyone else will think this too and so will your ex.
Spruce up your appearance a little, especially if you haven’t changed your style in awhile. Improving the way you look can do a world of good for your self-confidence.
You should go get your nails and your toes done at a day spa. Or, you should take an exercise class and lose a few pounds or just get toned-up. When you look in the mirror at your transformation, you will be impressed.
WOW Your Ex
Remember when you two were first going out and you spent hours getting your clothes, hair, and make-up just right? You even rehearsed what you would say to him, didn’t you? Well, you should have that same attitude towards him again. You’ll be amazed, this works wonders.
They gave their guys another first impression. Allow me to give you a hint. Maybe there is something particular that he really likes about you; such as seeing you in really feminine dresses. You need to use this tidbit of information to your advantage.
So, now you are already to go. What you should do is go to your favorite place to eat while wearing that dress he loves, and your new hairdo. Order what you usually order and look at him with wanting eyes. What this does, is it reminds him of what fun you two share. He may realize that he is still crazy for you.
Strengthen Your Strengths
In other words, put your best foot forward. Remind him of what he is missing. There is only one you and this tells him that he will not find you in anyone else. You may be saying to yourself,”He knows me already, what good will this do?” This is a subtle technique that will reignite his fire in you. It will remind him of what attracted him to you in the first place.
By showing off your best personality traits and strong points, this is a good reminder of what he is missing out on and he may not be ready to give that up just yet.
Slow & Easy
Take it slow and don’t rush into anything, it is not a good idea to rush back into a relationship just after you have broken up. Although you want to be with him right now, it is best you spend some time apart to heal after an emotional break-up.
Don’t force it. If you two were meant to be together, you will be together. If things don’t work out the way you want them to, be grateful you found out now and not years later. Forcing a relationship to work will only doom a couple to future heartache and more emotional anguish.
Talk To Each Other
Talking to each other after you have had some time to cool off is one of the best things to do. You two should sit down and calmly but rationally talk and listen to what the other has to say. Stay away from blaming each other or hurling insults. This will get you nowhere. In the process, you two will figure out do you have a future together.
While you are talking and listening to what the other has to say, you can find out if your relationship can be salvaged or not. Sometimes the reason why you broke up can be easily fixed such as getting involved with activities that are important to him and you.
You now have enough truth to begin winning him back. Repairing a relationship doesn’t happen over night because it wasn’t destroyed overnight. But by putting in the much needed time and patience in working on your relationship, you can get him back for good.
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