The basic premise of the Law of Attraction is that whatever we focus on positive or negative, those thoughts or desires will come true. Is it possible to use this same principle to get someone to desire us romantically?
We are only in control of our own reality and destiny. We do not have the power to create another person’s reality. If they do not want what we want, we must accept that.
For example, let’s say you are a single guy and you see a girl that you are attracted to. But she won’t give you the time of day even though she is standing right next to a clock. Or, she likes you just as much as you like her but you two can’t get connected for whatever reason.
If the two of you were meant to be together, then you would be together with no problem. If two people are a perfect match for each other, it would be easy as passing a hot knife through butter getting together.
In this case, this girl you like isn’t a perfect match for you. The universe can’t make her fall in love with you and neither can you.
But hold on keep on reading, all is not lost. The universe may not be able to make someone love you but it can tell you what kind of vibrational energy you are putting out in the world.
Whatever beliefs you have, so will the universe. For example, you really like this certain female and she seems to like you but your vibrational wires keep getting crossed.
Sometimes our energy or vibrations aren’t really clear to the universe. So, the universe will return hazy results that may match what you are looking for. The universe is asking you,” Is she the one you want?” Or “How about this one, or that one standing near the potted plant?”
And you would respond to the universe by saying,”I like her but she is not feminine enough.” Or you would say something like,”I really like her over there but I prefer a woman with larger breasts.”
Although this girl isn’t the perfect match for you, she’s a good indicator of what your vibrational match is. So, if she’s a great gal, your vibrational energy must be great as well. The type of women you attract mirror the type of person you are.
So what happens next? I have outlined a few guidelines:
I know it’s hard, but you must accept that the girl you want, isn’t meant to be. Your mind must remain open to the fact that she is only the beginning to who you will be a perfect match for.
Be honest with yourself, “Why do you want this girl anyway?” What stands out about her? Focus on those character or physical traits you admire about this girl. When you do this, the universe now can get a clearer picture of what you want in a woman.
You must remember that you don’t know anything about this girl; so you really don’t know if she is a right fit for you. You can trust the universe. The universe is looking at a panoramic view of what is going on.
If getting together with this girl is as difficult as charming a dog off of a meat wagon, this is a warning sign that this relationship is not meant to be. Don’t be frustrated about this. Let the universe handle everything.
You should stop obsessing about something you have no control over. Instead focus on something positive you enjoy doing. When you obsess about how single and lonely you are, lonely situations will come upon you like an avalanche.
Put this piece of advice into action right now, concentrate on what you love about your life instead of what you hate about it.
You never know, tomorrow you might meet your perfect match. At the end of the day ask yourself, if this girl you like isn’t the perfect one for you, do you really want to be with her? In the long run after the newness wears off, you might make each other miserable.
Your next question may be,”What if the perfect girl for me doesn’t exist?” Shouldn’t close enough be good enough? I understand where you are coming from. No one on this earth wants to be alone because we were not made to be alone.
Newspapers, magazines, and even our closest friends tell us we should find someone in our younger years to settle down with for if we don’t we will never find that person.
The world we live in teaches us that we are not complete if we are single. In order to be complete, we need to be with someone; and we need to find that someone while we are attractive and young.
Finding your one true love that is meant for you will happen when it is suppose to happen and not a moment sooner. So if you are in your late twenties or late forties and you still haven’t found her, she is still out there.
And we both know that this isn’t true. Finding the love of your life depends on what type of emotional vibrations you are sending out into the atmosphere.
Love should find you, you shouldn’t be searching for it. Until the right woman comes along, you should do two things, love yourself first, and second, you need to know who you are as a person. This will make a more successful relationship when she does come walking through that door.
Meanwhile, pay close attention to what you really admire about the women who are already in your life. Don’t let the fear of being alone force you to settle for less than what you want. You should enjoy the single life because there is nothing wrong with being single.
When you come to a point in your life that being single is OK, the universe will capture that positive energy and see that you are content with who you are.
With all of that positive energy you are sending out into the universe, The universe itself will send you the perfect mate. And you will soon notice that she is your perfect vibrational match.
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