Communication Skills: Avoiding The Awkward Silence

You manage to finally approach a cute girl. Using your awesome communication skills, you strike up a conversation without getting slapped or laughed away. The conversation with this cutie is going excellent. She’s smiling, laughing, clearly becoming more interested and more intrigued as the conversation rolls along.

Then you blank out… Run out of things to say. Try as you might, you cannot think of something funny, interesting, charming, or dear God, anything to continue the conversation. Her interest in you is falling faster than your ego and ambitions for the night. She looks at you expectantly, then disinterestedly, then disappointedly, then finally dismissively. Game over.

So what can you do to pull the conversational free fall back into the high flying interaction it was? You dig into your toolbox. Your communication abilities toolbox. You are about to learn one of the absolute best conversation-saving tools available. This is a surefire method to save any conversation with a woman, PLUS it’s so perfectly constructed, that it easily allows for sexual innuendo to obtain her mind “in the right spot” while still being in the context of pure, non-needy and fun banter.

It’s a little game called “SMK” and it will be your wingman. If you utilize this new wingman of yours, SMK, any interaction about in free fall will immediately be turned around. You will jump beyond the typical dork that approaches her with the usual boring pickup lines and dull conversations.

When you start to run out of things to say, just as you can feel that her attraction is about to start dipping down… You turn to her, and you say: “Hey, let’s play a game real quick.” Watch as her eyes sparkle with curiosity. This is a departure from the normal night-time drivel she’s used to dealing with. She will almost certainly invite you to proceed.

Onwards the game. Start to look around the room, examining the other guys you see and start to point them out one at a time, and ask her “ok, so would you sleep with, marry, or kill him?” She’ll laugh at first. Then she’ll look over at your target and check him out. Pick different kinds of men representing the spectrum of character types and stereotypes. A jock. A gangster. A nerd. A good-looking guy. A musician. A business man.

This will have several effects:

1) You will get an idea into what she values in a man, and how she operates. She will provide really direct hints to how she wants to be seduced. If she says “sleep with” to the musician, “marry” to the nerdy man, and “kill” to the guy in a suit … then you can guess that she’s got a wild side, she doesn’t like guys with a lot of structure, and she’s a secret nerd. Think of that … she’ll essentially be giving you a HUGE tip into how you can seduce her.

2) You can continue bantering and teasing her. This is so crucial to the first stage of the interaction . Keep conversation light, non-needy, (teasing her playfully) and enjoyable! Make fun and crazy projections about who you suspect she’d sleep with, marry and kill. It will be remarkably simple as she’s shifting in between giggling at her own qwerky tastes, flinching at the dopey guys, and changing to her ooh… voice with the men that turn her on.

3) And turned on she will be. Bear in mind, she’s bringing the thought “who do I want to sleep with?” into her mind, and it was all an experience that was generated by and shared with you … and just you.

4) Finally…she will see that you are 100% confident in your sexuality and your ability to attract women. You can confidently discuss the theoretical thought of her sleeping with other men, and that doesn’t threaten you. 99.99% of dudes would be terrified to even suggest that she even look at another guy when he’s talking to her! Your confidence here will be very, very sexy to women.

After playing this game for even a couple of minutes, she will be quite turned on by your imagination, your wit, and your self-confidence … This sets you up COMPLETELY to go into the next stage of interaction, which builds on the sexual energy in this game, especially if you’ve been appropriately blending in the right “sexual triggers” that all women have.

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