If you talk to any number of super hot girls and approach them, you will start to see the same SOP over and over again – she is going to test you. If you fail these tests, game over. You will join the piles of men she’s had to reject because they weren’t confident enough. The good news is, there is a way to pass these tests nearly 100% of the time and become attractive to women.
These hot women’ tests suffice to make the baddest guys puke and run away with their tails in between their legs. Nevertheless, if you understand the methods to passing, you are going to be the minority of guys who make it through her defenses and essentially become a sexual prospect. You will fail these tests and never ever become attractive to women and enjoy the consequent benefits if you do not understand these secret strategies.
These tests can be one of two types: compliance tests or congruence tests. Today, we are talking about compliance tests. A compliance test is an act or a statement that checks to see if you are going to do whatever she wants. If you comply, she will have gained control over the conversation, the interaction, and you. It seems like they would want you to fail these tests so they have the power, right?
Fortunately, that is not the case. When girls give compliance tests, they actually do want you to pass them. It is their method of filtering a genuinely confident, attractive guy from the field of losers. A very attractive woman will get hit on 10-15 times A day. That’s 300 times a month that a desirable woman is hit on. She will start to see patterns in the ways men act if they are truly confident or not, that has nothing to do with looks.
The compliance test is really a test to see whether or not they’re going to be able to get away with whatever they want. Why would they want to test this? Well, they want to find out whether or not you’re used to beautiful women hitting on you or whether or not you’re used to being with beautiful women.
This is a crucial principle. You will not bend over backwards for a gorgeous girl simply because she desires something, if you are accustomed to being with pretty women. Rather, you will react in a manner that makes her comply to you. Beautiful women are guaranteed to give you compliance tests and if you fail the compliance tests, you are guaranteed not to become attractive to them. So it’s very vital that you learn this.
How do you recognize compliance tests? Basically, look for any demand or command that she gives you within a short amount of time of meeting that seems small, but gets you to follow. One very classic compliance test is “buy me a drink.” Women go for the jugular here when you’re in the bar because they don’t have a whole lot of time to figure out who is attractive and confident, and who is not. How you respond to “buy me a drink” is critical when you’re in a bar.
There are various other little things like “why don’t you wait here while I go to the washroom.” or “give me a kiss ” or even “will you take a picture for us?” Anything that appears kind of innocent is typically a compliance test particularly if it’s from a truly gorgeous woman. The secret technique is simply that you don’t want to give in to or flat out turn down the demand, what you want to do is take control over it and include your own terms.
For example, if the hottie says, “Take our pictures.” Then you will say, “okay, I will but I want you to take one picture for you and one picture of how I ask you to take it.” So if they refused to do this, you say, “Alright, we’ll find some other guy.” You will actually find some other guy to take the camera and say, “Hey man, can you take their picture?” And you just have them take your picture.
Usually they will say all right fine, then you take the pic and you say “all right, now I want you to give me a hot pose.” Take their picture. “Okay now, make a silly face”, take a picture. And continue to make them do different poses as long as you can think of them.
Essentially what you’re doing now is you are getting compliance from them. This is crucial. This is called flipping the script and you will hear a lot about this. Flipping the script is one of the most powerful things that you can do to a woman that will create a massive amount of intrigue and attraction.
Starting now, know and identify when women are giving you a compliance test. Don’t automatically say yes like a puppy and do not reject it like a jerk. Add your own terms. You are going to see the beautiful girls in the bar beginning to treat you in a completely different manner when you begin doing this.
You can actually watch other guys approach, get shot down and see it ruin their nights as you can easily navigate the sea of compliance tests and come out looking like a superstar, making you become attractive to them since you’re the kind of guy who won’t just do exactly what she wants.