How To Approach Asian Girls If You Are A White Guy?

White guys may think Asian girls are an easy catch, but really, it’s not a walk in the park. Although white guys look pretty interesting to Asian women, one can never be too confident. You may look attractive, yes, and your being from a developed country like the United States may give you the edge, but keep in mind that Asian women are smart people whose appreciation of things go beyond the physical.

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So how do you approach Asian women if you are a white guy?

1) First rule, don’t approach an Asian woman if she’s all alone. That can scare her off and leave you with no second chances at all.  Wait until you see her with friends before making your move.

2) Tone down on the confidence level.  Don’t act as if you own the world. Asian girls prefer guys who are down to earth. Don’t boast that you have a fat wallet. Asian girls don’t really care much about that.

3) Strike up a conversation and keep the ball rolling. Stay off topics that are too personal and issues that are sensitive, like religion, for example. You don’t want to get on a heated debate on your first date, do you? Instead, ask her about the tourist attractions in her locality or the places she has been. Perhaps, you can also get into a conversation of things she likes to do after work or during free hours. Refrain from talking too much about yourself.

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4) Work on your sense of humour. Not everyone is gifted with the ability to make people laugh naturally. If you are not blessed with this gift, either, it’s not too late to work on it. Make time to research on a few pick up lines and know exactly how and when to use them!

5) Understand that barriers exist. Know what these are and learn to get past them. Communication is very important but considering that you are worlds apart, this can pose a problem. There won’t be much of an issue if the Asian girl is a Filipina because Filipino women speak and understand the English language. But girls in other Asian countries may not be very comfortable expressing themselves in English. Some may not even be able to fully understand spoken English. It you are planning to visit an Asian country, then, do make an effort to learn a few catchy lines in the native language so when you do have to approach an Asian girl you can try to impress her with words spoken in her native tongue.   

You have to understand, too, that Asian girls are more conservative than their Western counterpart. So be careful with the language you use. And don’t try to seduce her on your first date.

6) Look and act like a gentleman. Does it sound archaic? Apparently not, when you are dealing with an Asian woman. Looks are not everything, yes, but make an effort to look neat and clean at the very least. Hygiene, for Asian women, are very important, so don’t leave home without shaving your beard or taking a bath if you have plans of meeting or approaching an Asian woman. Also, gain her respect by being courteous and not talking too loudly, cursing, drinking heavily, and being overly demanding. It is also rude to stare or ogle.    

7) Dazzle her with your smile. What girl can resist a smile that extends from one ear to the next? But make sure you have nice teeth to go along with the smile.

Asian girls are an interesting lot and if you want to enjoy their company, you’ll just have to make the right move from the start.

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If You Are Planning to Visit the Philippines Which Places Would You Like to See and Check Out?

You must have heard it said all too often – “it’s more fun in the Philippines”. A tropical country in Southeast Asia, the Philippines is truly blessed with abundant natural resources, world-class beaches, historic locations, and scenic spots. If you’re planning to visit the Philippines, here’s a shortlist of places you would like to see and check out:

1) Puerto Princesa, Palawan. Located on the northern coast of Palawan (an island province southwest of Manila, named as the World’s Best Island) is Puerto Princesa, where lies the now world-famous Puerto Princesa Subterranean River, declared as one of New Natural Wonders of the World. This underground river is the longest navigable river in the world, but even more amazing are the natural rock formations (yes, they are nature’s very own carvings!) tourists will find while paddling through the cave.

Just around 98 miles southeast of Puerto Princesa is the Tubbataha Reefs National Park, declared as a World Heritage Site because of its coral islands and immaculate coral reefs that are home to marine life of various kinds and color. Hailed as a diver’s paradise, the Tubbataha Reefs is a must visit by people who want to explore the great beyond.

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2) El Nido, Palawan. Another place to visit in Palawan is the municipality of El Nido, home to the world-famous El Nido Resorts, where guests can enjoy a variety of activities such as snorkeling, hiking, island-hopping, or experience nature at its very best. El Nido boasts of white-sand beaches and emerald-colored lagoons, and the title as one of the best beaches in the world.

3) Boracay Island, Malay. The white sandy beaches of Boracay Island in the province of Aklan have literally put the province of Aklan on the map. Tourists from all over the world, and from all parts of the Philippines, make time to visit this world-famous beach resort, which besides the white sandy beaches and the crystal blue waters does offer plenty of other activities for everyone.

After your Boracay escapade, do stop by the Sampaguita Gardens in New Washington, Aklan, which sits on a 2.6 hectare property, and is owned by Sam Butcher, the man behind the Precious Moments dolls. Within the Sampaguita Gardens, where it’s Christmas all throughout the year, are the Samuel J. Butcher Mansion, the precious Moments Meditation Chapel, and Jojo’s Christmas Cottage.

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4) Vigan, Ilocos Sur. Vigan in the province of Ilocos Sur in Northern Luzon, is another World Heritage Site, famous for the beautiful Spanish homes on cobblestone streets. Also a must-visit in Vigan are the Baluarte (fortress) that houses a mini zoo, the Bantay Belfry which sits on a hill and provides an amazing view of Vigan, and the Playa de Oro Resort, to name a few. Amidst wars and natural calamities, Vigan has kept its beauty throughout the years.

5) Donsol, Sorsogon. Donsol used to be considered a “sleeping fishing village” until it was discovered to be inhabited by whale sharks. Now tourists flock the once sleeping village not only to see the whale sharks but to interact and even swim with them!

6) Bohol. The Province of Bohol in the Central Visayas region of the Philippines is home to The Chocolate Hills, which are actually mole hills of about 30 to 50 meters high. During the rainy season, the green grass covers the mounds but come summertime, the grass withers and turns brown. Bohol is also home to virgin forests where you can find the smallest monkey in the world, the Tarsier.

There are still many other places in the Philippines where one can spend a memorable vacation. The important thing is to plan your itinerary well, especially if you do not have a lot of time in your hands. Sometimes, a great amount of time is spent arguing on what to do and where to go next. If you are planning to visit the Philippines, it may be wise to consult a travel agent or a tourist guide to help you make the most of your time. If you would rather do things your way, find out the weather conditions of the area on the period you intend to visit, and find out as much as you can about the places you wish visit. It’s more fun in the Philippines, isn’t it?

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True or False: Filipino Women Generally Make Great Partners and Know How to Treat a Man?

It  seems funny how the statement is made to sound like it’s a test question in social science. But, truth  be told, Filipino women generally do make great partners and, yes, they very well know how to treat a man, as well.

Maybe it is because it is in the very nature of Filipino women to be nurturing. Or maybe it is also because Filipinos generally are family-oriented. Only in the Philippines can you find several generations of families still living under one roof, or in the same compound at the very least.. Indeed that’s how close their family ties are.

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Filipinos consider their families as their strongest support group. Values are learned and developed from this smallest unit of society. It is here where they learn and experience being loved and how to love in return. This is where they learn values of respect and patience, values that keep a relationship solid and strong, and values that they carry with them when they grow up and get into a relationship.

Why Filipino women generally make great partners and know how to treat a man is also because of the nature of Filipinos to be hospitable. Yes, hospitality is a key trait of Filipinos, and it’s something that’s known all over the world. Indeed, Filipinos give their visitors the red carpet treatment. They prepare the best foods, lay down their best utensils, pull down their new curtains, offer them the best room in the house. Filipinos go the extra mile to make sure that their guests are well-fed and happy. If that’s how they treat their houseguests, how much more the men in their life?

Filipinos are brought up to be God-fearing and religious. Their faith teaches them that marriage is sacred, and adultery a big sin. Although western influences and modernization have influenced the way Filipinos live their married life, many still remain faithful to their vows. Things are not always smooth-sailing, of course, but because Filipinos believe that marriage is meant to last a lifetime, they try their best to save their marriage at all cost.

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So, exactly what can you expect when you have a Filipino woman for a partner? In a nutshell:

1) Career person or not, you can expect her to take care of your needs, like cook for you, prepare the things you need for work, etc. You can depend on her to keep the house clean and organized, and the children taken cared of as well.
2) She will eagerly await you when you get home and listen to your stories.
3) She will make you laugh when you’re feeling low and dejected.
4) She will keep you company when you get home late from work.
5) She can serve as your conscience; someone to tell you you’re going wayward or doing things wrong.
6) She can remain faithful till the end for as long as you don’t abuse her physically or emotionally, and for as long as you don’t give her any reason to leave you..
7) She can be your best friend for life.
8) She will protect your family and fight for your relationship.
9) She will light up your home, and your life.
10) She will stand by her man, through thick or thin.

Needless to say, it always “takes two to tango”, as the saying goes. The Filipino woman shouldn’t be the only one doing all to save a relationship. Her partner should also do his share to make the relationship work and last a lifetime. If you are a foreigner who desires to marry a Filipina, you must try harder as there are more barriers to break, such as communication, cultural and religious differences. But once you have broken through these barriers, you will realize that Filipino women generally make great partners and know how to treat a man.

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What should an American guy do to start courting a woman from the Philippines?

It may be easy for an American guy to be attracted to a woman from the Philippines, but getting her to fall in love with you may be far easier said than done. There are many barriers to courting a Filipina and these conflicts have to be dealt with properly if you want a serious, long, and lasting relationship.

Filipino American Sam Milby with Filipina Judy Ann Santos
Filipino American Sam Milby with Filipina Judy Ann Santos (TV Series “Huwag Ka Lang Mawawala”)

Among the major issues are the differences in culture, the very thing that defines a country. Culture is what’s unique to a particular country, so it’s definitely a huge challenge to break through this barrier.  Although you are not expected to adapt yourself to the Filipino culture, you need to, at the very least, respect it. But first of all, you must familiarize yourself with the Filipino culture. That only makes sense, doesn’t it? What is the FIlipino culture, and how does it differ from the American culture?

Going over some materials on the web, you’ll discover that generally, Filipino women:

1)  are very attached to their families. It’s often the case that even married Filipinos still live under one roof with their families. So when planning to court a Filipino girl, expect to involve her family in the entire process. Get to know, not only her, but her siblings, parents, aunts and uncles, cousins, grandparents, and so on.

2) are religious.  The Philipines is, by and large, a Catholic nation. So don’t be surprised if the woman you want to date is Catholic. If that’s the case, and you’re not, just be sure to show respect to her religious beliefs. And even if you feel strongly about your religion, don’t force her to change hers.

3) have a deep respect for the elderly. Americans usually call the elderly by their first names, but Filipinos regard them with more respect. If you are “meeting the parents” for the first time, address the mom and dad as “Ma’am” and “Sir”, respectively. A more formal approach is to call them Mrs. or Mr. so and so, but don’t talk to them on a first-name basis, unless that’s what they really want.

4) are conservative. Western influences may be apparent in the way modern Filipinas dress and act, but many Filipinas are still pretty much conservative. So don’t criticize or don’t be turned off when you see your Filipino girl not in a revealing outfit. And don’t expect that your first date will end up in bed as that is not very likely to happen.

There are also communication barriers that you need to address if you want to start courting a woman from the Philippines. Filipinas are generally educated and smart people, and many of them, in fact, have strong English communication skills, but always give due consideration to the fact that Filipino is still her primary language.

Keeping these in mind, you need to show utmost sincerity to the Filipino woman of your dreams. If are meeting online, it is important that you keep this up, but it is just as important to make time and effort to meet her and her family personally. True, America is miles away from the Philippines, and you’ll be needing a lot of money for plane fare, little souvenirs for everyone, and other essentials, but going through such trouble is one of the ways you can prove that you really are sincere.

An American guy has to be true to her, as well as to himself. Don’t play around with her dreams because her dreams represent her future. If you think you can fool her with false promises and lies, don’t expect you can simply get away with it. The Filipina woman does not deserve to fall victim to such an act. And remember, there is such as thing as bad karma, so if you want to start courting a woman from the Philippines, make sure that your intentions are pure, to begin with.

What do women in the Philippines think about dating an American born Filipino Men?

Does it really matter what do women in the Philippines think about dating an American born Filipino men? Well, not all modern Filipino women think the same when it comes to dating Amercan born Filipino men, that’s for sure. Some say it’s cool to have a Fil-Am boyfriend because it makes them look and sound “sosyal” (in English, that means classy).

Filipino American Sam Milby with Judy Ann Santos
Filipino American Sam Milby with Judy Ann Santos

You see, although English is widely used and understood in the Philippines, not all Filipino women speak English like it’s their primary language. Those who do are usually the “colegialas” and society’s top guns (the “upper class” in other words) only. Dating an American-born Filipino man will enable you to practice conversing in English, making you “sosyal” in the eyes of many.

Dating American-born Filipino men is also seen as a passport to the US. Getting a VISA to the United States, whether to work or go on vacation, is very difficult these days, especially if you are young, single, and ambitious. Without a fiance VISA, you might as well say “bye-bye” to your dream of going to the “Land of the Free” for now. But on the other side of the fence are Filipina women who may not like the idea of dating American-born Filipino men. For one thing, there’s the language barrier. As was said earlier, not all Filipinas can express their thoughts eloquently in English. So to save them from utter humiliation, they may prefer not entertain guys who speak American English at all.

There’s also the connotation that American-born Filipino men are overconfident, arrogant, and too full of themselves, and for some women, that’s a huge turnoff.

So guys, if you think you can get just get about any Filipina girl out there simply because you are an American born Filipino, think again. The road may be a lot tougher to walk on than you think!

Filipino American Sam Milby and Judy Ann Santos
Filipino American Sam Milby and Judy Ann Santos
(TV Series “Huwag Ka Lang Mawawala”)

Differences in culture are also another factor why some Filipino women are hesitant to date American-born Filipino men. If the American-born Filipino has adopted the American way of life, he will appear to be more liberated, and unafraid of speaking his mind. And that can be scary for a Filipina who has spent her life at home, cloistered, and protected by her own family. This brings me to yet another point, that Americans, are not as family-oriented as Filipinos, and that can become an issue sooner or later.

Indeed, the American culture is entirely different from the culture women in the Philippines grew up in, but the challenge can be faced fair and square. True, there are many relationships that have blossomed between a Filipina and an American-born Filipino, and that is because, one, both parties are willing to meet halfway, and two, the desire for each other is not influenced by the lure of money or pride.

What do women in the Philippines think about dating an American born Filipino men does not matter in the end when you embrace the other person for who he is deep inside without forgeting who you are.